Questions, Questions
and More Questions
by Pat Stevens
After you have had a few dates with someone and you think it might be going
somewhere, you begin to ask more serious questions about their childhood,
family, job etc.
Eventually the relationship might progress to where the really tough questions
must be asked. Like "have you ever slept with someone without using a condom"
or "how much debt do you have"? There is no easy way to bring up these questions.
Recently, I received a copy of Michael Webb's newest book, 1000 Questions
for Couples: What you absolutely must know about the person you are with.
This book is going to make those difficult questions much easier to ask.
The questions start off easy like "Has anyone dear to you died? How did
you handle it" and "About what things are you most selfish." They slowly progress
(just like your relationship should) until you get to those questions that
you simply can't avoid if you are going to commit your life to living with
someone. There are questions on drug addictions, abuse, child rearing, finances
and lots of questions about sex. And because these questions are coming from
a book, you don't feel like "you" are asking them.
A special bonus that I really liked was the option to get 3-5 of the book's
questions emailed to me each day. That way I could forward the questions
on to my beloved and we could each read over them and forward the answers
to each other that night. I can see where this would be very valuable for
those in long distance relationships.
While there are a lot of questions in this book that are crucial for couples
in the dating stage, the majority of the questions are useful for people
who are already married. If you value your relationship,
I urge you to ask these 1000 Questions for Couples
.
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